How to say “lazy” professionally

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1. 01

   Hi Natalie, I've sent my part in every week, but the shared tracker still has gaps from one teammate. Could we talk about how to split the work more evenly?

   Boss · Email

   Use it when uneven effort piles work on you, since it gives facts and asks for a fix without pointing a finger.

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2. 02

   Your section of the report is still missing, and I need it to finish mine. Can you send it by 3 pm today?

   Coworker · Chat

   A late deliverable that blocks your own work fits here, because it names the gap, the impact and a deadline.

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3. 03

   Hey, I've been covering the shared tasks on my own for a few weeks. Can we talk today about splitting them fairly?

   Coworker · SMS

   Colleagues who keep skipping shared tasks or rarely reply are a good match, since it opens a talk without accusing.

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4. 04

   The last three updates were missing details I asked for. Let's go through what's getting in the way and agree on what a finished update looks like.

   Someone you manage · Chat

   Managers dealing with low effort can use it, as it names the pattern and sets a clear standard for finished work.

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5. 05

   Hi Patrick, we haven't received the approvals since last week, and the schedule depends on them. Could you send them by Friday so we stay on track?

   Client · Email

   When a slow client holds up the project, it ties the request to the schedule instead of to their attitude.

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6. 06

   I haven't seen the shortlist for this role yet, and the team is waiting to start interviews. Can you confirm by tomorrow when I'll have it?

   Recruiter / HR · Email

   Hiring managers stuck waiting on a shortlist can send it, because it states the delay and asks for a date.

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Examples

What to avoid

• Labeling the person (“lazy”, “useless”) instead of describing what was missed is the quickest way to lose them.
• Words like “always” or “never” weaken your case, so name the specific tasks and dates.
• Venting to other colleagues before you've spoken to the person only spreads the problem.
• If you're annoyed, wait before sending anything sharp, then write it plainly.
• Hints hide the request, so say what you need and by when.

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