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Alternatives to “that's too vague” at work

Why it can fall flat

“that's too vague”

Calling a gap “too vague” turns a request for detail into a verdict, so the other person feels dismissed and can't tell what to fix. What you almost always need is the one specific detail that lets you move forward.

Say this instead

  1. 01

    I'm not sure how to act on this yet. Could you give me one example of what you'd like to see?

    Coworker · Chat

    Chat works well when a teammate's request leaves you guessing, since asking for one example is a small, easy favor.

  2. 02

    Could you help me pin this down? I want to aim at the right outcome. What would a good result look like to you?

    Boss · Chat

    Asking about the end result suits a loose brief from a manager because it doesn't challenge the brief itself.

  3. 03

    Thanks for the feedback. To make the right changes, could you point to the parts you'd like different and tell me what you'd like instead?

    Client · Email

    Clients with general comments will find this easy to answer, and you get specifics without seeming defensive.

  4. 04

    Thanks for the update. Could you add the dates and who's involved? I need those details to give you useful feedback.

    Someone you manage · Chat

    Name what's missing from a direct report's update and frame it as a request, so it reads as support rather than criticism.

  5. 05

    Thanks for getting in touch. Could you tell us what happened, when it happened, and your order number?

    Customer · SMS

    Support messages with no details get a clear list of exactly what you need, which keeps a text reply short.

  6. 06

    Thanks for your message. I don't have enough to decide yet. Could you share the team, location and pay range for the role?

    Recruiter / HR · Email

    Recruiters who send thin outreach get a polite nudge to supply the facts you need before you reply properly.

  7. 07

    I read your proposal, but I can't tell yet what you need from my team. Could you spell out the next steps and who owns each one?

    Coworker · Email

    Written proposals suit this one because it names the missing pieces, and the reply can safely be forwarded to others.

  8. 08

    Got your note. Can you tell me which part you mean and by when? That will help me pick it up.

    Coworker · SMS

    Quick texts to a colleague work best with this, since it asks for the one key detail that's missing.

Examples

Email

Hi Chloe, Thanks for sending your comments on the draft. I want to make the right changes, but the note about the tone being off is hard for me to act on yet. Could you point to one or two paragraphs that felt wrong and describe what you'd prefer? Best regards, Ivan

Chat

Thanks for the notes. I can see the goal, but I'm missing a deadline and who signs it off. Could you add those two things so I can plan around it?

What to avoid

  • Calling the person vague or saying “you're always vague” makes it personal, so talk about the detail that's missing instead.
  • Asking for clarification in a group channel can embarrass them, so send a private message first.
  • Sarcasm such as “Could you be any less specific?” will only make people defensive.
  • Asking only “what do you mean?” leaves them guessing, so say what you need, such as dates, an example or the goal.

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