“I'm declining your quote”: how to say it politely
Why it can fall flat
“I'm declining your quote”
It leaves out any thanks for the work behind the quote and gives no reason, so it can feel cold and final. Most writers want a clear no that stays courteous and keeps the relationship intact.
Say this instead
- 01
Thanks for sending over your fees for the analyst role. The rate is above our budget, so we won't be taking this further.
Recruiter / HR · Email
Fits a staffing agency's fee proposal, since it gives one clear reason and closes the door gently.
- 02
Hi Pallavi, thanks for the quote. We're passing on it as it's outside our budget. Thanks for your time.
Recruiter / HR · SMS
Suits an agency chasing you by text, when you want a short, friendly no.
- 03
Thanks for getting the quote together, Arin. I can't accept it at this price. Could we look at which parts might come down?
Coworker · Chat
Keeps the numbers open for discussion while making clear the current figure is a no.
- 04
Hi Aaliyah, thanks for the estimate for the design work. I'm not able to accept it as it stands, because the total is above what my team has set aside.
Coworker · Email
Useful for an internal estimate from another team, where a reason needs to be on record.
- 05
Thanks for chasing that supplier quote, Leo. We won't be accepting it because it's over budget. Please let them know we're not proceeding.
Someone you manage · Chat
Gives the person you manage a clear decision and a next step, so nothing is left hanging.
- 06
Hi Sinead, thanks for forwarding the quote. I'm not able to accept it as it stands, as the price is above the project budget. Happy to talk it through if useful.
Boss · Email
Declines respectfully upward by stating the reason and offering to explain further.
Examples
Hi Ms. Phillips, Thank you for sending the quote for the office printers. The total is above our budget, so we won't be accepting it. We appreciate the time you put into preparing it. Kind regards, Abhishek
Thanks for the quote, Diego. We can't accept it at that price, so we'll leave it there. I appreciate you putting it together.
What to avoid
- Piling on apologies weakens the message, because a clear no is more respectful than a string of sorries.
- Saying “we'll think about it” when the answer is already no leaves the other person waiting for nothing.
- Criticizing the price or the person's work invites an argument, so stick to your budget or needs.
- A reason you can't stand behind may come back to you later, so give only one you can support.