Alternatives to “this seems shady” at work
Why it can fall flat
“this seems shady”
Saying “this seems shady” hands the other person an accusation with nothing specific to answer, so they get defensive instead of explaining. What you probably want is for the thing that doesn't add up to get checked.
Say this instead
- 01
I have a concern about this invoice. The amount doesn't match the quote we agreed, and I'd like to check it before we approve it. Can we look at it together?
Boss · Chat
Naming the exact mismatch gives your boss something concrete to back before anything gets approved.
- 02
Something about these numbers doesn't add up for me. Can you walk me through how they were put together?
Coworker · Chat
Use this with a coworker when you're unsure there's a problem, since asking for a walkthrough invites an explanation.
- 03
Before we go ahead, I'd like to confirm a few details in this request, as some of it doesn't match what we have on file. Could you send the supporting documents?
Client · Email
A client request that looks unusual gets a polite pause here, and asking for documents doesn't imply dishonesty.
- 04
I'm not comfortable with how this was handled. Can we go through what happened step by step so I understand it properly?
Someone you manage · Chat
If you manage the person, this states your concern plainly and asks for a full account in a calm way.
- 05
Thanks for reaching out. Some details of this role are unclear to me, including the employer's name and the pay range. Could you share them before we speak?
Recruiter / HR · Email
Vague job offers call for this one, because it asks for the exact details that would settle your doubts.
- 06
Hi Skyler, we couldn't verify this payment request. Please confirm the details using the phone number on our website before we go ahead.
Customer · SMS
For a suspicious payment request, the neutral tone and the phone-number check give the customer a safe way to confirm.
- 07
I'd like to flag something in the new expense process that looks off to me. Could we set aside ten minutes this week so I can show you the examples?
Boss · Email
When the concern needs evidence, asking for ten minutes lets you present examples instead of making a claim in writing.
- 08
Can we talk before this goes out? A couple of things in it look off to me and I'd rather check them first.
Coworker · SMS
Short on time, you can use this to ask for a quick pause and keep the details for a conversation.
Examples
Hi Sinead, I was going through the supplier quote for the March event and noticed the total is higher than the figure we discussed last week. I may be missing something, but I'd like to check the breakdown before we sign off. Could you send the itemized version, or can we look at it together tomorrow? Thanks, Dominic
Hi Sean, one thing in the sales report doesn't add up for me: the March total is different from the one in the system. Could you walk me through how you got it?
What to avoid
- Calling a person or company shady, dodgy or fishy sounds like an accusation and invites defensiveness.
- Guessing at motives backfires, so describe what you saw instead of what you think they meant.
- Raise it with the person directly first, not in a group chat where others can watch.
- Vague worries are hard to act on, so name the specific figure, document or step that looks wrong.