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What to say instead of “are you still interested?”

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“are you still interested?”

The word “still” in “are you still interested?” can suggest the other person has cooled off or dropped the ball. Usually you just want a clear answer so you can plan or close the loop.

Say this instead

  1. 01

    Hi Alice, I wanted to check whether you'd still like to go ahead with the proposal I sent on the 4th. If priorities have changed, just let me know and I'll close it on my side.

    Client · Email

    Send this after a quiet week or two, since it gives the client an easy way to say no without awkwardness.

  2. 02

    Hi Dakota, I'm checking in on the analyst role. Is my application still being considered? Happy to send anything else you need.

    Recruiter / HR · Email

    Try this when you haven't heard back, because it asks for status politely and offers help instead of pressure.

  3. 03

    Hi Mr. Ramsay, Dana here. Do you still want the kitchen fitting quote? Reply YES to go ahead or NO and I'll close it. Thanks!

    Customer · SMS

    A one-word reply is all this needs, which makes it a good quick nudge on an open quote.

  4. 04

    Hey Mihir, are you still keen to join the Thursday planning session? I'm finalizing the list today, so a quick yes or no would help.

    Coworker · Chat

    Giving a reason and a deadline makes this read as planning rather than pressure.

  5. 05

    Do you still want me to pick up the vendor review, or has it moved down the list? Happy either way, I just want to plan my week.

    Boss · Chat

    Use this when a task has gone quiet, since it checks priority without suggesting you're avoiding the work.

  6. 06

    Is the training course still something you want to do this quarter? If so, send me the dates and I'll look at them.

    Someone you manage · Chat

    Here the choice stays with your team member and the next step is clear.

  7. 07

    Hi Vivek, checking if you'd still like to meet on Friday at 3. A quick yes or no works, and we can rebook if needed.

    Client · SMS

    Send this shortly before a meeting, when you need to confirm the slot is still wanted.

  8. 08

    Hello Mrs. Khan, your quote for the annual plan is open until June 30. Would you like to continue with it, or shall I close it for now?

    Customer · Email

    Adding a date explains why you're asking and makes replying feel simple.

Examples

Email

Hi Harriet, I'm following up on the website redesign quote I sent on May 12. Do you still want to go ahead with it? If your plans have changed, a short reply is fine and I'll close the quote on my side. Best regards, Reese

Chat

Hi Jon, are you still planning to join Friday's review? I'm sending the invite list this afternoon, so a quick yes or no would help.

What to avoid

  • Phrases like “as I mentioned” or “just checking again” sound like blame, so leave them out.
  • Give a reason or next step for needing the answer, rather than asking with no deadline.
  • Guessing at their reasons, such as “you seem to have lost interest”, puts them on the defensive.
  • Sending several nudges in one day crowds people, so give them time to reply.
  • Keep the answer easy by asking for a simple yes or no.

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