Better ways to say “you're doing the bare minimum”

Say this instead

1. 01

   Your tasks are getting done, but I'd like to see you take more ownership. Can we talk about what's getting in the way?

   Someone you manage · Chat

   Use it when the work is acceptable but flat, since it names the gap and invites an explanation before any judgment.

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2. 02

   The assigned work is on track, but I'm not seeing much beyond it, like flagging problems early or suggesting improvements. Let's agree on what stepping up looks like this quarter.

   Someone you manage · Email

   A one-to-one follow-up suits this one because it gives concrete examples and sets up a shared expectation.

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3. 03

   I'm carrying more of this project than I expected. Can we go through who's doing what so the split feels fair?

   Coworker · Chat

   Try it when a peer is doing only their core tasks, because it talks about workload and not their character.

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4. 04

   Hey, I've noticed I'm picking up most of the extra bits on this. Can we talk today about sharing them more evenly?

   Coworker · SMS

   Good for a quick, low-drama nudge when a deadline is close and a long message would feel heavy.

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5. 05

   I feel I'm getting only basic direction from you on this project. Could we set up a short weekly check-in so I can get more input?

   Boss · Email

   Raise thin support from a manager as a need here, and the specific fix keeps it from sounding like an accusation.

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6. 06

   So far we've received only the minimum information needed to start. To keep the timeline, we'll need more detail on your requirements by Friday.

   Client · Email

   Fits when a client's input is thin, and putting the deadline on the page makes the request hard to ignore.

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7. 07

   The updates so far have been very brief. Could you share more detail on the role, the team and the timeline so I can decide how to proceed?

   Recruiter / HR · Email

   Useful when a recruiter gives little information and you want fuller answers before investing more time.

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Examples

What to avoid

• Absolutes like “always” or “never” invite an argument over examples, so leave them out.
• Guessing at motives such as laziness or not caring backfires, so describe what you see instead.
• Saying it in public or in a group chat puts the person on the spot, so keep the conversation private.
• Staying vague leaves them guessing, so name one or two specific tasks or behaviors and what you'd like instead.
• Sarcasm like “thanks for the effort” hides the real message and tends to sting.

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