What to say instead of “I'm burnt out”

Say this instead

1. 01

   I've been at full capacity for a while and I'm worried about the quality of my work. Could we talk about which priorities can move or wait?

   Boss · Email

   Use this for a workload talk, since it names a concrete concern and asks for a decision instead of just venting.

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2. 02

   Could we find 15 minutes this week? My workload has been too heavy for too long, and I'd like to agree what I can take off my plate.

   Boss · Chat

   This is a quick, low-drama opener that asks for a meeting and shows you want solutions.

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3. 03

   I'm completely worn out and need to take today off. I'll catch up with you as soon as I'm back.

   Boss · SMS

   Send this on a day you simply can't continue, because it is short, honest and doesn't ask permission to rest.

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4. 04

   I'm offline for the evening and need the downtime. I'll pick this up first thing tomorrow.

   Coworker · SMS

   This suits non-urgent after-hours requests, since it sets a limit and gives a clear next step.

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5. 05

   Thank you for thinking of me for this project. I'd like to give it proper attention, which my current workload doesn't allow right now. I'd rather decline than deliver less than my best.

   Client · Email

   Choose this when you must turn down extra work, because it frames the no around quality rather than your energy.

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6. 06

   Thanks for thinking of me. I don't have the capacity to take on a new hiring process, so I'll pass on this one. Feel free to stay in touch about future roles.

   Recruiter / HR · Email

   A polite no that keeps the door open, handy when you may want to hear from them later.

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7. 07

   I'm stretched thin this week, so I can't take on the extra review. Could you check with Hina on this one, or hold it until Monday?

   Someone you manage · Chat

   Try this when someone you manage asks for more, as it sets your limit and offers two practical routes.

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Examples

What to avoid

• Don't stop at how you feel; say what you need, such as a lighter workload or a later deadline.
• Long personal histories and over-explaining weaken the message, and one clear reason is enough.
• Hinting and hoping the other person guesses rarely works, so state the limit plainly.
• Blaming named colleagues or the team for how you feel will only create friction.
• Saying yes first and then canceling is worse than giving your no early.

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